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Or you might have sensed all the tension just below the surface, like a volcano waiting to blow.The constant lying, manipulation, and harsh parenting makes it hard to trust people.Some struggle with alcohol or other addictions themselves. Addicts are often unpredictable, sometimes abusive, and always checked-out emotionally (and sometimes physically).You never knew who would be there or what mood they’d be in when you came home from school. There may have been a lot of overt tension and conflict.Now you continue to take responsibility for other people’s feelings or for problems that you didn’t cause. Childhood fear and trauma left you in a hypervigilant state. If you identified with some of this list, like many other ACOAs, you developed these coping strategies and personality traits in order to deal with your dysfunctional family. Healing can start by simply knowing that you aren’t alone.

This leads to controlling behaviors in your relationships.This sets you on a treadmill of always having to prove your worth by achieving more and more. Perfectionism and low self-esteem force to you set your goals higher and continue to try to prove yourself.People-pleasing You have a strong need to be liked and accepted.This limits the amount of intimacy you can have with your partner and can leave you feeling disconnected.Shame and loneliness Shame is the feeling that you’re bad or wrong and unworthy of love.

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