Dating someone completely opposite
This is cited as one of the most important modern scientific studies, because it lends truth to the saying that opposites do, indeed, attract.In the end, our bodies just want to prevent inbreeding, so we look for a mate with diverse genes in comparison to ours.My boyfriend is outgoing and friendly – he can walk into a room of my family members and start up a conversation with someone he just met.I, on the other hand, am shy and reserved and attempting to talk to his family members sort of makes me break out in hives.Like we talked about before, dating someone too much like yourself would become stifling, boring, and wouldn’t stimulate your personal growth after a while.The most striking difference between opposites is undoubtedly their personalities, and dating someone with a personality unlike yours can accent your strengths and help improve your weaknesses.I am constantly learning about things I’ve never thought twice about from him and vice versa. As different as my boyfriend and I are, we still share the same goals when it comes to our relationship. We both like each other (that’s a pretty big one) and we both have the same thoughts on what a relationship should be like. He introduces me to new things I never thought I would enjoy and I do the same for him. I almost feel like if we were very similar, things would get boring, fast. Speaking from my personal experience, dating someone who is just like me is like dating… And yeah, I’m cool and all, but I don’t want to date myself. I guess what I’m trying to say here is that when it comes to relationships, it’s usually about finding the right balance for you. Would you rather date someone similar to you or different than you?
For another thing, I am the definition of a moody, emotional, passionate Scorpio and if I had to deal with another one of me all the time… You may have opposite tastes in food, differences in spiritual beliefs, varying desires of places you want to travel to, and the list goes on.All of these dissimilarities means that you will constantly be showing each other new places to go, new foods to try, different facts about your heritage and background, and more.Maybe he or she is an avid skier who can show you the ropes of the slopes.On the other hand, maybe you enjoy more quiet, calm pastimes like drawing or knitting, and you can teach him or her all about it.